YOUR MARITAL HEALTH/WHY HUSBANDS DON’T HAVE ORGASM: MR. MYTH – THE GETTING-IN-TO-GET-OFF MYTH
You keep asking us to touch and talk. When do we get to do it?
HUSBAND AT FIFTH VISIT TO CLINIC
It’s funny. Intercourse has a whole new meaning now. It’s like it is a part, not an end, of our sex.
SAME HUSBAND AT TWELFTH VISIT TO CLINIC
Insertion of the penis into the vagina is necessary only for conception. Even then, full insertion may not always be necessary. Another major super marital sex lesson is that penis-in-vagina intercourse is totally unnecessary for sexual fulfillment.
Intercourse has had excellent P.R. We are taught early and repeatedly that anything short of intercourse is foreplay, preliminary to the main event. Actually, intercourse is reported as unsatisfying for more than half of sexually active people in the United States. Men and women report more intense sexual response to masturbation, at least from a physical point of view.
Our language of sex contains words such as “mounting,” ‘ ‘humping,” and other mammalian concepts from our agrarian history. The industrial revolution brought such terms as “screwing,” “drilling,” and “balling.” The space age may bring terms such as “blasting,” “orbiting,” “re-entry,” and “burn.” The future may hold robotic sex, even remote-control intimacy. We have many more terms for intercourse than for intimacy in sex.
I have treated hundreds of couples with fertility problems. In their efforts to conceive, they have nearly destroyed their sex lives. They have been treated mechanically, from medicines that affect sexual interest to sperm samples and other medical maneuvers that take sexual intimacy totally out of its loving context. Fertility experts are becoming aware of this problem and referring couples to my clinic to balance the medical intervention for conception.
Super marital sex’s posture of the future involves an entirely new view of what intercourse can be, one free from the mechanical dimensions emphasized in the earlier sex perspectives.
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